Modern love decoded: 5 rules to date smart not hard POV with Anu ft Kavyal Sedani
Updated on:09 May, 2025 11:58 AM IST | Prith
Welcome back to POV with Anu! In this eye-opening episode, Anu chats with Kavyal Sedani - an intuitive mental health expert, hypnotherapist, life coach, and spiritual healer - to decode the realities of modern love and dating in a fast-changing world.
From the pressures of choosing between career and marriage to the emotional pitfalls of digital dating, this conversation explores it all. Kavyal emphasizes that women don’t have to pick one path - success in both career and love is possible, but it comes with effort and accountability.
She challenges the narrative of self-victimization, encourages ownership over our fears, and shares how manifestation without hard work is just fantasy. We also dive into myths around marriage - it`s not a rescue operation, but potentially the "toughest MBA you`ll ever do".
Other key topics include:
The shift from dating for connection to dating for validation or lifestyle
The trust deficit in modern relationships and the blurred lines of loyalty
The harm of snooping into phones, and what it says about privacy and insecurity
Why boundaries aren’t walls - they’re safety nets for love
How men may be biologically wired to stay intensely attracted for three years - and what that means for lasting love
Kavyal’s 5+ Rules to Date Smart, Not Hard:
Don’t trauma-dump on the first date
Keep your boundaries intact
Don’t date to feed your ego
Prioritize emotional connection over surface-level excitement
Let common sense guide you
Consider a year of friendship to gauge compassion and compatibility
Take it slow - there’s strength in patience
Whether you`re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode is packed with relatable, thought-provoking takeaways on modern relationships, self-love, loyalty, and how to navigate dating in the digital age.
Tell us in the comments: Which of these rules resonated with you most?
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